Thank you all for participating in the celebration of my mother’s life. 

I also would like to thank my sisters, and any of you who had a hand in putting this program together and allowing a space for me. 

I must apologize in advance to all the mothers in attendance today, in no way do I mean to offend you, but my mother is the most amazing woman the world has ever had the opportunity to know.  I say opportunity to know because God allowed us here, the blessing of experiencing life with my mom. We all loved being around her, and she did so much for us all.

The love my mom has for me and my sisters is truly unconditional. I know that is a typical statement, but nothing has been truer.  I have been in prison quite a while and I have seen the devastation from guys when their mom say they want nothing to do with them. Those terrible words never came out of my mother’s mouth because they were never in her heart. I know that I disappointed her and my dad on many occasions, but they would never give up on me.

Her lessons have truly enabled me to get through difficult times. It may have seemed that her words were going in one ear and out of the other, but through it all I’ve learned so much from mom. I have learned to listen, I have learned empathy, I have learned to do for others even if I get nothing in return - I was just slow to application. These important lessons I will carry with me always. Whenever I was preparing to leave the house after visiting my parents, or talking with them over the phone, my mom would always end every conversation the same “I love you too much”!

I love you too much Mom.

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Grandma

It has been hard without you here Grandma. I miss you more and more everyday, but I am so privileged to have had you as my Grandmother. Your light was too bright for this world and the Lord sent you here to touch lives like mine.  I will never forget what you taught me while you were here. Until we meet again I will try to live and exceed the expectations you set for me. Thank you for everything thing and more. <3

-Fine China


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You were the boss of our family, what a tremendous loss to our family

You were my sunshine, you made me happy when times were blue

You always knew what to say or do

I know you are in a better place

But my heart still can’t help but ache

I could always count on you

Because you were my number two

I looked up to you, my number two

You were like my mother and like no other

God said it was time for you to rest

It is for the best

We might not understand, but it is in God’s plan

I will miss you more than words can say

Why couldn’t you just stay

It is in God’s plan It was Gods plan

R.I.Paradise until we meet again

Love,

Your other daughter/niece Robin 

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A Sisters Love

To my dearest brother-in-law and my 2 beautiful nieces Janet and Pamela,

Although I have waited for almost a year to reunite with my sister again, I wish it didn’t have to be so bittersweet.  The passing of your wife and mother is a heavy loss for you and your family but I want you to take comfort in knowing that I’ve got my sister now.  Jan and I are together once again.  Jan took care of me as a big sister should and now it is my turn to repay her.  So don’t worry about Jan and Loretta; this sister bond is unbreakable and delivered by God.

Love Always,

Loretta